The Importance of Afternoon Tea with My Children

Afternoon Tea with ChildrenAfternoon tea commonly conjures images of Queen Elizabeth and Big Ben, for me at least. It is a very common English tradition that is not usually observed in the United States. However, I chose to introduce it to my children, and I think it has great benefit.

The Benefits of Observing Afternoon Tea

1) The consistency of ritual.

Children thrive on consistency. It helps them to feel safe and secure. Participating in ritual helps them to feel included and builds self confidence.

2) Teaching Etiquette.

I am using afternoon Tea to teach proper etiquette. Placing a napkin in the lap, eating with utensils, stirring without clanking spoons, not slurping hot tea- I believe these can be important skills for adult life.

 3) To Purposefully Take a Break and Be Together.

With ballet and other activities sometimes a family dinner isn’t always possible. However afternoon Tea allows me to sit down with my children and really focus on them and talk with them in a relaxed setting before the evening gets busy.

Tea Time collage

4) Introducing culture.

Tea is enjoyed as a beverage in many different cultures. Not to mention there are many different types of teas to try and enjoy. I love to hear my children comment on the flavors of Irish Tea with Milk and sugar, Jasmine green tea, chamomile with honey-the list can go on. It expands their knowledge of the world around them, much like trying new cuisine.

I love this little ritual with my children. While it’s relatively new for us, I above all enjoy the time it gives me to just sit and enjoy my children. The days are so busy with lessons and chores, and activities but this lets us take a short break and just be.

For some great tea recipes and ideas, check out some of these great articles from my friends:

Homemade Chai Tea Concentrate by Primally Inspired

The Art of Tea by Like a Normal Person

Look to Nettle Tea… by Life by Jeanie


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2 thoughts on “The Importance of Afternoon Tea with My Children”

  1. Virginia Williams says:

    I think its important for us to show our little ones how important other cultures and their families and friends enjoy everyday life around the world. It helps give them such a wonderful respect for others when we include them in special day to day life events and habits of others.

    1. NaturallyPersnickety says:

      Thank you! My boys love their tea time and my oldest son drinks Irish Breakfast tea instead of coffee.

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